We are all on the road to recovery.  It is a process.  It takes time.  Time that needs to be well planned out and invested so that we get the return that we want.  We all sell our time at work, but we also need to invest some time in our future.  The future of walking in freedom.  We need to willfully choose to take the path to freedom.  We will only grow to the extent that we are willing to get involved with God, His Church, and His people.